Bringing home a new baby is a huge change for everyone in the family—but especially for the little person who is suddenly becoming a big sibling.
Whether they’re becoming a big brother or big sister for the first time, a new baby can bring excitement, curiosity, confusion, and a whole lot of feelings. Reading books about becoming a big sibling is one simple way to help your child understand what’s coming and give them a chance to talk about their own feelings.
If you’re looking for the best books about becoming a big sibling, these are some of my favorites to read together before baby arrives.
Julius, the Baby of the World by Kevin Henkes
A funny and relatable story about Lilly, who is decidedly not impressed with her new baby brother, Julius. It does a wonderful job of acknowledging jealousy and complicated feelings while reminding older siblings that their place in the family hasn’t changed.
Best for: Preschoolers who may be feeling a little unsure about welcoming a new sibling.
A gentle, reassuring book that helps children imagine what life will be like when their new baby arrives. It explores the excitement, changes, and everyday moments that come with becoming a big sibling.
Best for: Toddlers and preschoolers preparing for a new baby.
When Our New Baby Comes by AUBREY COLEMAN
I Am a Big Brother / I Am a Big Sister by Caroline Jayne Church
These sweet, simple books introduce young children to the idea of becoming a big brother or big sister. They focus on the excitement of having a new baby while making the transition feel familiar and approachable.
Best for: Toddlers and younger children who are becoming big siblings for the first time.
You Were the First by Patricia MacLachlan
A beautiful reminder that your first child will always be your first. The book celebrates all of the milestones and memories a child experienced with their parents before becoming a big brother or big sister.
Best for: Helping an older sibling feel secure and special during a big family transition.
Baby Belly by Patricia Martin
A sweet way to introduce young children to pregnancy and help them understand what’s happening as their family prepares for a new baby. It gives little ones a tangible way to connect with the baby growing inside Mom’s belly.
Best for: Toddlers and preschoolers who are curious about where the new baby is and what’s happening during pregnancy.
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